What dad doesn't know doesn't count

by Sam Bartholomew, an attorney in Nashville

WITH two kids on the way out of college and more planning to attend, I find myself giving advice as our kids leave the nest. I doubt they pay much attention, but Dad gives is a try:

• You have a body, possess a soul and are a spirit - look after all three.
• Don't burp, chew gum, or spit where anyone can see or hear you.
• Write a letter to someone at least once a week - writing is still cheaper than a phone call.
• Always make time for daily prayer and Bible reading.
• People are more likely to watch your walk than to believe all your talk.
• Have a firm handshake, look 'em in the eye, speak clearly and say, "Yes Ma'am!" and "Yes, sir!"
• Always show up early for marriages and funerals - it does the soul good to sit quietly, reflect and contemplate.
• Keep lists of things to do - the world is run by people who make lists.
• If you can't say something good about someone, don't say it.
• Too much TV stunts your growth. Read a book for fun regularly.
• You cannot solve everyone else's problems.
• While there are two sides to most every issue, your Dad knows which one is right.
• Manage your time and money wisely - there's a limited amount of it, and you'll rarely have too much.
• Don't let the sun set on your anger - forgive and move on.
• Boy's biggest problems: Girls, Greed and Glory.
• Girl's biggest problems: Boys, What to Wear, Greed and Glory.
• All advice is subject to change except God's.
• Every child needs the unconditional love of another human being - help where you can.
• Polish your shoes, be polite, and remember table manners are still important.
• Don't get too busy for your family.
• Winners prepare harder than losers.
• Never enter into a 50/50 proposition without some way to resolve a split decision.
• Never have a home mortgage larger than three times your income.
• Join a local church and tithe.
• The most important book on law, love and life is the Bible.
• Good folks are everywhere, but the South has an unusually large number of them.
• Don't be judgmental if you don't have all the facts.
• Balance is important in life and in sports.
• Parents and grandparents are wiser than you currently believe.
• Exercise daily - it's more important as you age.
• Negotiate with your father, after a good meal.
• Boys really do like one-piece bathing suits.
• If you need more advice, just ask Dad!

 



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